Morgan Myers, LPC
Licensed Professional Counselor for women specializing in faith and spirituality struggles
Some women come in to process their past pain from church and religion like:
- dark night of the soul
- doubt in God.
“Most of us were taught that God would love us if and when we change. In fact, God loves you so that you can change. What empowers change, what makes you desirous of change is the experience of love. It is that inherent experience of love that becomes the engine of change.”
I believe we can embrace our doubt and our belief, our devoutness and our relativism, our woundedness with the church and our healing experiences with God. If we can hold all of these together we’re practicing grace. To put it in psychological terms, we developing a more flexible view of ourselves and the world, which is always healthier than shame and self-judgement.
All of this I have seen first hand in my own faith. I have, and still do, grapple with deep doubt. I have experienced spiritual wounding from leaders I believed in. I am still reconciling my past experiences in God with my concept of God now. From that place of understanding, I work to bring the spiritual life and psychology together in my approach to therapy.
Many of the concerns my clients have:
- Processing deconstructing their faith
- Over-moralizing their choices
- Unable to let go of failures- even as they are trying to embrace more freedom
- A harsh inner critic
- Shame about the decisions they have made because they differ from what they were taught growing up
- Wanting to embrace freedom without judgement of yourself
- Feeling confident about choices around naysayers
- Learning to embrace and integrate their faith now